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Dating Tips for Men
- Hygiene and appearance. Make sure you are well
groomed for your date which does mean a shower, shave, clean tidy
clothes, fresh breath and manicured fingernails. Your appearance will
be the first thing someone judges about you so make it your best.
Take it from me; a woman will not go out again with a man who smells.
- Wear a good cologne. Never underestimate the sense
of smell. Intoxicate her senses.
- Arrive on time. The worst thing you can do is to
be late for your date. Let her know her time is important by arriving
on time.
- Have a plan in mind. Women love to be pampered
so she will be impressed if you come up with a good plan for the date.
Be decisive and don’t say I don’t know what ever you want
to do.
- Be a gentleman. Open doors for your date and always
let her go first. Women like to feel special.
- Give her a compliment. Women love to be complimented
because it makes them feel special and attractive. So compliment her
about her outfit, eyes, hair etc but make sure your compliments are
sincere . Just don’t lose your credibility by going over board
on the compliments.
- Be confident. Women are attracted to men who have
confidence. You have got to believe in yourself and project a positive
self image otherwise she won’t see yourself worth.
- Listen and ask questions. Women appreciate men
who will ask them questions which will make them feel that you are
interested in getting to know them. Most men will monopolize the conversation
just talking about themselves. You must remember that you are here
to learn about your date. Come up with a few interesting and original
questions to ask your date. Make sure these questions are open ended
and avoid using yes or no questions.
- Keep those table manners in check. Don’t
talk with your mouth full.
- No phone calls. It is rude to accept cell phone
calls during the date in fact I would turn off the cell phone. You
should be giving your date your undivided time and attention.
- Dating past. Don’t talk about negative dating
experiences especially your ex-girlfriend. You need to focus on the
present and let go of the past.
- Keep your hands to yourself. Don’t try to
grope her on the first date. Treat her like a lady and show her some
respect.
- Show off. Don’t constantly brag about yourself.
Remember oversell is less attractive to women.
- Pay the bill. Who pays the bill can be a tricky
question. I feel that it is appropriate for the man to pay especially
if he is the one who initiated the date. There is something to be
said for the dying art of chivalry. A woman may offer to help with
the bill but she will be most impressed if you don’t accept
her help. In some cases, I have had my date tell me to leave the tip
but a better option is letting me get the dessert at the next stop.
No matter what you decide it is always a good idea to let your date
know if you intend to pay since it will avoid some of the awkwardness.
- Goodnight kiss. I would advise to not try and kiss
your date unless she makes the first move. You can always try the
half lean approach. You lean in toward your date only halfway and
see if she meets you the other half of the way. This dating tactic
was mentioned in the Will Smith movie Hitch.
- Let her know. If you like your date than you can
let her know at the end of the date by asking for another date. You
can say, “I had a wonderful time with you tonight and I would
like for us to get together again”.
- I’ll call you when I won’t. Don’t
tell your date that you will call her if you are not interested in
seeing her again. You can simply say, “I enjoyed meeting you”
and wish her a good rest of the evening. You don’t want to make
a promise that you will not keep.
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