Date or Soul Mate List
Can't Stand!
TRAITS
1. Vanity - I can’t stand someone who is overly
interested in his or her physical appearance.
2. Dependent - I can’t stand someone who bases
his or her happiness on me.
3. Depressed - I can’t stand someone who is
con-stantly unhappy about his or her life.
4. Lying - I can’t stand someone who lies to
any-one—especially to me.
5. Cheating - I can’t stand someone who takes
advantage of people.
6. Cynical - I can’t stand someone who generally
sees the world from a cynical perspective.
7. Angry - I can’t stand someone who can’t
manage his or her anger, who yells or bottles it up inside.
8. Self-Centered - I can’t stand someone whose
main topic of conversation is himself or herself.
9. Rude - I can’t stand someone who is belittling,
impatient, or hateful to people in any situation.
10. Unhappy at Work - I can’t stand someone
who hates his or her job and complains about it all the time.
11. Materialistic - I can’t stand someone who
sees material items as a measure of success.
12. Denying - I can’t stand someone who is
unable to accept blame or see fault in his or her own actions.
13. Workaholic - I can’t stand someone who
treats everything in life as secondary to his or her job.
14. Lazy - I can’t stand someone who likes
to spend excessive time sleeping, resting, or being a “couchpotato.”
15. Worrying - I can’t stand someone who easily
loses perspective and constantly worries.
16. Intolerant - While I understand that religious
conviction is a positive trait, I can’t stand someone who is self-righteous
and feels that his or her particular faith is the only one that matters.
17. Victim Mentality - While everyone has times of
self-pity, I can’t stand someone who continually sees himself
or herself as a victim.
18. Grudges - I can’t stand someone who has
a chip on his or her shoulder.
19. Mean-Spirited - I can’t stand someone who
has a devious nature and is mean to others.
20. Childish - I can’t stand someone who is
not emotionally mature.
21. Fiscally Irresponsible - I can’t stand
someone who is incapable of managing his or her money.
22. Petty - I can’t stand someone who focuses
on imperfection.
23. Hypochondriac - I can’t stand someone who
has a general disposition of sickness and is constantly treating the
symptoms of his or her supposed illness.
24. Boorish - I can’t stand someone who is
inclined to rowdy, vulgar, or disrespectful behavior when “having
fun.”
25. Excessively Overweight - I can’t stand
some-one who is overweight.
26. Gambling - I can’t stand someone who gambles.
27. Drugs - I can’t stand someone who uses
illegal recreational drugs.
28. Intruding Family / Friends - I can’t stand
some-one whose relatives and friends are con-stantly calling or visiting.
VALUES
29. Punctuality - I can’t stand someone who
is always late.
30. Flirts - I can’t stand someone who constantly
flirts with the opposite sex.
31. Racist - I can’t stand someone who believes
that any particular ethnic group to which he or she belongs is superior
to the rest of humanity.
32. Television Junkie - I can’t stand someone
who constantly watches television.
33. Poor Hygiene - I can’t stand someone who
is not clean.
34. Hypocrites - I can’t stand someone who
holds a double standard for his or her actions and those of other people.
35. Gossip - I can’t stand someone who loves
to talk about other people.
36. Judgmental - I can’t stand someone who
finds fault with everyone and everything.
37. Pornography - I can’t stand someone who
views or owns pornography in any form.
38. Addictions - I can’t stand someone who
cur-rently suffers from an addiction.
39. Sloppy - I can’t stand someone who is unkempt.
40. Undependable - I can’t stand someone who
fails to come through and is unreliable.
41. Cheap - I can’t stand someone who is so
tight-fisted as to be impractical.
42. Foul-Mouthed - I can’t stand someone who
swears or uses inappropriate language or humor.
43. Arrogant - I can’t stand someone who is
obnoxiously cocky.
44. Extremely Shy - I can’t stand someone who
is so shy that he or she cannot open up and share with me.
45. Pessimism - I can’t stand someone who always
sees the glass as half empty.
46. Political Correctness - I can’t stand someone
who censors his or her thoughts and opinions with a politically correct
agenda.
47. Recklessness - I can’t stand someone who
has a careless and irresponsible manner with others.
48. Sexually Obsessed - I can’t stand someone
who is sexually obsessive.
49. Uninterested - I can’t stand someone who
does not enjoy having sex on a regular basis.
50. Infidelity - I can’t stand someone who
engages in sex outside a committed relationship.
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